Darling Trudi, I'm not certain of much, but I know you are one of the very, very best members of this crazy little substack family - you and Benjamin are truly treasured here.
This is the place to vent, rage and cry - we love you and hear you.
Trudi we have obviously never met but having read many of your comments it is obvious to me that your a good person with compassion and empathy , I want to say a personal thankyou Trudi for knowing that there are genuine people out there who acctually care means a lot to me.. ❤
Thanks Stuart, I do care about you all, I’m just not coping which is selfish. I just don’t know how much longer I can go on. I feel so alone. I don’t want to feel this way but I do and I hate myself for it . Im so sorry
Trudi you are anything but selfish. I'm sorry you are feeling so low. You have been to hell and back. I cannot say truly that I know how you feel because I haven't lost any of my sons, but please do not be so hard on yourself. As Stu said, I do not know you, but you always support everyone on here and I feel you are a genuine lovely lady who has been dealt a truly shit card. Please give yourself time to grieve.
I watched a programme about a medium and he said that our loved ones who have passed are always with us and when we talk to them, they hear us. I dont know if you believe in an afterlife, but I definitely do and I think it might give you comfort to talk to him about how you feel. I don't mean to be patronising btw, just for you to find a path through this extremely difficult period in your life.
We are all here for you Trudi and we're putting our arms around you right now. Yes, you're feeling down and out, we totally understand that, but you will get through this Trudi, I really believe that. Lots of love to you xx
Dear Trudi, I've seen the caring and wonderful comments you leave on here for other people and your empathy and goodness shine through. You have had to bear the worst loss imaginable so don't beat yourself up about feeling so low. You are entitled to rage and cry and whatever else you need to do to help your anguish and grief. Much love and hugs to you. xx
Don't let your friend's stuff drag you down.
Darling Trudi, I'm not certain of much, but I know you are one of the very, very best members of this crazy little substack family - you and Benjamin are truly treasured here.
This is the place to vent, rage and cry - we love you and hear you.
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Trudi we have obviously never met but having read many of your comments it is obvious to me that your a good person with compassion and empathy , I want to say a personal thankyou Trudi for knowing that there are genuine people out there who acctually care means a lot to me.. ❤
Thanks Stuart, I do care about you all, I’m just not coping which is selfish. I just don’t know how much longer I can go on. I feel so alone. I don’t want to feel this way but I do and I hate myself for it . Im so sorry
Trudi you are anything but selfish. I'm sorry you are feeling so low. You have been to hell and back. I cannot say truly that I know how you feel because I haven't lost any of my sons, but please do not be so hard on yourself. As Stu said, I do not know you, but you always support everyone on here and I feel you are a genuine lovely lady who has been dealt a truly shit card. Please give yourself time to grieve.
I watched a programme about a medium and he said that our loved ones who have passed are always with us and when we talk to them, they hear us. I dont know if you believe in an afterlife, but I definitely do and I think it might give you comfort to talk to him about how you feel. I don't mean to be patronising btw, just for you to find a path through this extremely difficult period in your life.
We are all here for you Trudi and we're putting our arms around you right now. Yes, you're feeling down and out, we totally understand that, but you will get through this Trudi, I really believe that. Lots of love to you xx
Bless you and thanks, I’m just so tired. I am so sorry for the pity me shit
I just want Benjamin 💙
Dear Trudi, I've seen the caring and wonderful comments you leave on here for other people and your empathy and goodness shine through. You have had to bear the worst loss imaginable so don't beat yourself up about feeling so low. You are entitled to rage and cry and whatever else you need to do to help your anguish and grief. Much love and hugs to you. xx
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